Giving Encouragement on the Paintball Field

My 12 year old son and 2 of his friends competed- Instead of feeling defeated after a loss, they
as a team in one of their first paintballdiscussed what worked and what needed
tournaments this weekend. They wereimproving. It would have been easy to feel
considerably younger and inexperienced than anywinning was hopeless and give up. The
of the other teams. However, several peopleencouragement and tips provided by others kept
participating in the tournament did some amazingthem motivated.
things to encourage this young team.- They won their final game!
- A paintball gun one of the boys was using- They are looking forward to participating in
stopped working properly during the tournament.future paintball tournaments.
A participant loaned his guns so all 3 boys couldAre you encouraging others? You don't have to
continue to compete as a team in thebe a paintball expert to encourage someone. You
tournament.can encourage anyone, anywhere. Think about a
- Several of the referees and competitors fromperson you know that could use some support or
the other teams said words of encouragement tomotivation. Think about the best way you can do
the boys throughout the day.it. It might be providing a listening ear, some
- As participants watched the team play eachencouraging words, a handwritten note, or some
game, they would tell them tips on how theyhelp regarding a need he or she might have.
could improve.Whatever it is, don't put off doing it. Make a
The result of this encouragement had severaldifference in someone's life today.
positive outcomes.To learn more ways to give, go to and sign up
- The boys improved with each game theyfor the free Everyday Giving ezine. Roger Carr is
played. The encouragement and tips helped themthe founder of Everyday Giving. His life purpose is
play a better game.to help people help others.