Motivation: Communication Is The Difference Between Winning and Losing

Communication has many forms and when usedWhen two people don't know the same language
properly you win.communication still takes place. In Washington, DC
The ability to "communicate with a focus" (action)I parked my car, began walking, saw a man and
plays a vital role. Regardless of our occupation,woman making what appeared to me to be
the individuals who excel in a specific field and areabusive gestures. His face looked thwarted and so
able to communicate this knowledge to benefitdid hers. In my mind, I was to calm the situation
others and themselves always win. Be attentiveand I thought this can't be happening. As I
to your presence, voice, body language, eyeapproached, I realized they were using sign
contact, and actions. Communication has manylanguage. As I looked at the buildings, engraved
forms and when used properly you win.above the door on the building to my left was
Democracy and capitalism form a communicationGallaudet University. I told a friend about my
system allowing us to work with one another. Inexperience and he informed me Gallaudet
the United States, political campaigns are abundantUniversity is a school for the deaf, hard of
because 2004 is a Presidential election year. Willhearing, and hearing students. It made more
George Bush be reelected, the Democraticsense to me. Assumption is a losing form of
candidate, or an Independent? A political campaigncommunication.
is won on the ability of a leader to communicateTo address traditional communication think of the
to the people their path forward for a betterfollowing. What you say, how you say it, your
future. Newly elected President Franklin D.listening skills, your understanding, and response
Roosevelt said in his inaugural speech, "let memake an impact. I was flying from Atlanta, GA to
assert my firm belief that the only thing we havePittsburgh, PA. I observed a lady sitting beside me
to fear is fear itself - nameless, unreasoning,reading a book intently. We were thirty minutes
unjustified terror which paralyzes needed effortsoutside of Pittsburgh when the plane started losing
to convert retreat into advance."altitude. It felt like we were on a roller coaster.
Everyday we wake up with a positive winningThe plane was definitely communicating there's a
attitude or a negative losing attitude. The choiceproblem to the pilot and passengers. When there's
and decision is yours. A positive winning attitudea problem, you better fix it, especially when on an
communicates life is fun and your a success. Aairplane. The lady beside me started reading fast,
negative losing attitude communicates theprayed, started to look nervous, and grabbed my
opposite. Therefore, wake up with a positivearm tightly. Being positive minded and knowing
winning attitude. There is no cost and it hassomething had to be done, I utilized humor to
numerous mental and health benefits.calm her and myself. I told her with a humorous I
Your ability to communicate determines whetherknow what's happening tone, "Don't worry; they
you have a winning sales call. The next time youare just backing off the jets." Someone giving her
communicate with an individual, focus. It willsome positive and knowledgeable sounding input
differentiate you and should give you acalmed her and the airplane became stable and
competitive advantage. It takes practice. Yourwe landed safely in Pittsburgh. I did the best I
lunch meetings will be more meaningful and whencould do and I'm glad I didn't have to do better. I
you say "hey" and talk to your significant othermade up the humorous line to benefit her and I.
instead of heading straight upstairs your personalUnderstand, prayer and humor when used
life will be more meaningful. Selling will become acorrectly are winning forms of communication.
winning proposition.A significant form of communication is motivation.
If I receive good communication from theMotivation gets you to think and do. It provides
players, coaches, and fans during a sportingfuel for professional and personal fulfillment. My
event, I know we will win. The playersmotivational tip for the New Year is for you to
communicate to me by making plays. If my team"communicate with a focus" (action) and you will
intercepts the ball, I cheer. If my team allows ahave more fun, create more value, develop
touchdown, I'm not cheering. The announcer andbetter relationships, and show you care. Be
scoreboard also inform me of who is winning thegenuine, comfortable, and patient. Remember,
game."Communication is the difference between winning
I wish I knew every language in the world. Couldand losing." It will make a significant difference in
you imagine the ability to connect with people?your life. Be a winner!